[Brightlife888]

#10435

Yeah mam… During this conversation I came to realize IAM not drinking enough water only

Thank you I'll try set my personal priorities

Thank you

[Sanjay Roy-Certified VK Teacher]

#10473

Dear Brightlife888

Just could not hold myself back in this discussion which is approx 7 months old. It aches to see a Brightlife go Dim. Golden Sunrise to you.

I am sure, you must have seen some building gates which are made with flattened strip-rods placed in oblique position, where you may see nothing when you stand in front but when you step just a bit askew, you may see inside. Another example could be 2 or 3 dimensional pics of Deities where you have to shift your vision left or right to see the image changed.

I guess this is what is happening with you. Being in a subdued state of mind, you are not able to evaluate yourself. You are watching people overtaking you …… stepping on you to upgrade…… or making you feel foible. I suggest you, to know that all these situations are subjected to, how you look at it. Mostly we visualize these situations like someone has outraced us, or considering us as inferior. Sometimes we feel like "I am not of the level……maybe people are smarter…..or Am I a loser – always?? But this is not true. In fact, people, in general, have much lesser IQ than we think – the difference is in the way we look at it.

Let me take myself as an example. I was an average student in school and quite obviously, I had the same company…I mean group. I noticed all in my group had a wall created around them and in-spite they aspired to, but hesitated to mingle with those boys who had a good scoring record. Just for being an off-beat, I shirked off my inhibition and started interacting with them, as we had at least a common ground – Sports. There were no barriers then. I became one of them. Even I scored better since then.

I was lady-shy, predominantly because I was weak in spoken English. But my wits were good and I could make jokes on myself. I started speaking to myself in front of mirror, read newspaper loudly, talk to myself in english on the way back. Believe me, I still see myself to be very popular among ladies today at the age beyond 50. Does that connects you somewhere??

Please STOP comparing yourself with others or what they are capable of. You are yourself and so Be yourself. Create your own way as if you are the one who no one else can be. What someone else has done was his piece of cake……its your birthday and you are going to cut a new cake. Shine and others will recognize, its my promise. You said yourself that you were a genius someday. Let that genius emerge once again. Generate Love for yourself and you will find your love automatically.

With the above commitment to yourself, heal with VK. Divine supports who support thyself. You will gain your lost confidence once you stop looking or caring about others.

This is my opinion. Do you agree ?

[shaluoli]

#10474

Sanjay roy sir thnku so much for this post…..really thnku

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[Puneet-Certified VK Teacher]

#10490

Gratitude Sir your each and every word is treat for me to read and boost postivity.

Thankyou So much sir for the wonderful explanation.

:kiss

[Sanjay Roy-Certified VK Teacher]

#10497

Thanks for your thanks @shaluoli.

[Sanjay Roy-Certified VK Teacher]

#10498

Thanks Puneet, especially for your Love. In fact, your positive waves fills me with more positivity.

:bertekat

[Brightlife888]

#12421

Sir with due respect am not comparing with others but am just telling that doosre mujhe dabake rakh rahe Hain and due to my lack of confidence main kuch nahi bol pa rahi..and in my working place am lagging behind due this my self supression

[Brightlife888]

#12422

I love my vks but life is still the same and am disappointed! Have been taking GS+AWS+BS+TWS since 6months continuously

For earlier 6months break aaya in taking serums like I used to miss 1 or 2 days

If you were in my place sir what would you do sir

[Sanjay Roy-Certified VK Teacher]

#12436

Golden SunRise @Brightlife888,

Nobody can in each other’s place. But if I were you I would surrender to the situation first. You know why?? This will bring the situation on an even platform. When someone is suffering too much and taking too many of medicine which is not working, she/he should stop all medicare for once. This window brings the body to a base level, then, one should take up a new prescription. Likewise, if you are currently feeling too much suppressed, surrender to the situation for a while.

Genius ko koi dabaa sakta hai kya? Aapka mann hi aapko kamzor kar sakta hai aur koi nahi. Please do not think that the world will always according to you, mostly you will see a BSc or an MSc person end up working in a Bank. My interest is in Literature but I started my career as a Hardcore computer programmer, and look at the irony – for last 27 years, I am heading a Sales team in Shoe industry. Now, think what would you have done if you were in my place. What should have I done ? I am giving my own example, so that you may not think that I am not understanding your despair.

Dear @Brightlife888, most of us, do not get their dream job or expected life. Companies, today, have a cut-throat environment, where there is always enormous work pressure and still superiors try to suppress sub-ordinates more, so that they do not evaluate themselves and desire for more. They actually try kill their ambitions. But still people are surviving …..isn’t it? At your end, I would have been proud of what I was, and maintain that I still am the same…..intelligent & capable. But I will try to be wise too. Who can suppress me at work or at home when I can tackle the fiasco better & faster than others (otherwise my evaluation about myself stands wrong). Even working for my dream company, I might be having a big work pressure. Then I might not be complaining but situation would be the same.

Please understand, inferiority complex is result of self inflicted notions and mis-judgement about oneself and confidence is an assurance from within that ‘I can do it’. Please break the shackles within yourself and recognize your real self. That is the Mantra. Give-in to the situation however, grim they are. Go with the wave but don’t get drowned, swim along and you will see that you are ahead of others in ‘their’ race.

I suggest you stop all the serums for the time being and with VK in your hand, ‘Release your Negative Emotions’ (Chapter-2 of Manual), under heads Fear, Greif & Apathy, for 15 days or 1 month. I think you will find your desired result and confidence. You may start your favorite serums after that. May God Bless you.

[Brightlife888]

#12437

Sir..thank you

[Brightlife888]

#13380

Sharat sir.. Thank you so much for serums and Vk..I feel boost in my confidence, I think due to the serum combination you told me to take.

I think it's about the consistency and perseverance in taking serums, and patience..for some people it may take long I think.

Thank you

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