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How to change my hubby's mindset?

GOLDEN SUNRISE VK teachers,
My hubby is from a village background working as software employee in a reputed company. He loves me so much but is always under the influence of his mother and two elder sisters. Iam 9th month pregnant now. My hubby takes care of me very well and is very protective. Once his mother and sisters told him ( I was 4th month pregnant then) that it's the responsibility of girl's parents to take care of their pregnant daughter, don't take her to hospital and don't buy her any medicines, leave her at her parents home. He did whatever they said. I was shocked and cried a lot.
Such things happened many times. He always listens to his mother & sisters. They don't like even if he visits me. He is scared to visit me as this might upset his mom and sisters. We are happy only when they are not involved. But they try to involve in all of our issues. They stay far away from us. But still bothering us.
My hubby is traditional. Whatever his mom says in the name of their tradition, he follows it without second thought. She tells him to do many illogical and non traditional things to do in the name of tradition according to her convenience. My hubby blindly follows his mom AND doesn't know what's truth.

How to protect my hubby from their influence? I want him to think on his own, not based on their words and thoughts.

Previously I used to send his mom and sisters the energies of
GOLDEN SUNRISE
LOVE SERUM
ALL CLEAR SERUM
SHIELD OF SEVEN RAYS...

But no change in their behaviour towards me, I started hating them too because they show their cunningness when iam alone but act as if they love me so much in front of my hubby and my father in law. He thinks they love me so much but Iam misunderstanding them. They also disrespect my parents when my hubby is not around but my hubby doesn't believe it.
I stopped sending them these energies.

Can I request like this,

"VK GOLDEN SUNRISE, pls keep my hubby away from the influence of his mom & sisters NOW FOREVER".
And
" VK GOLDEN SUNRISE, pls reveal the true Colors of his mom and sisters to my hubby NOW".

How to protect him from their influence? What to do to change his mindset? Pls guide me

Sorry for such a long post.
Iam sending
GOLDEN SUNRISE, LOVE SERUM, ONE SOUL SERUM, ALL CLEAR SERUM & SOSR to my hubby.

VK healed and avoided many such incidents before they turn into mishaps, but I want a permanent solution. Pls guide me
GOLDEN SUNRISE thanks

Comments

  • @Gayathri

    GOLDEN SUNRISE

    Draw a circle and write your name husbands name sister in law and mother in law name

    Send
    ONE SOUL SERUM
    LOVE SERUM
    GOLDEN SUNRISE
    SHIELD OF 7 RAYS
    on this paper.

    Your inlaws also need OSS with you. Consider all members as your family and do the healing together.

    In addition you can send SO7R to your marital relationship like this
    SO7R to me my husband and my marital bond with my husband.

    Now we cannot keep mother and son away with intention normally because its a bond which all mothers and children share life long. So the best way in this case

    GOLDEN SUNRISE MAKE WAY FOR ROMANTIC ETERNAL BONDING BETWEEN ME AND MY HUSBAND NOW FOREVER

    I am not suggesting ACS in first healing as you are pregnant and your name appears.

    In every sentence you have written about your husband's GOOD feelings and relation with you. So if he follows certain traditional practices guided by his mom and you feel they are illogical. Then a better way would be to ignore their activities or accept the situatiion. Because one should give space to every relation. The way he loves and does good things for you....he would also feel good to follow his mothers wish. Isnt it?

    So he is actually balancing all relations. If you feel he is fearful , you can send him BRAVO SERUM.

    You can do OSS betn both side parents too.

    I feel that shift your energy to your baby .....Do more healing for healthy baby and easy comfortable delivery . Pray to VK that your husband should hold your hands in all walks of your life.

    Dont take stress of inlaws....and enjoy your pregnancy and baby inside. This is an enjoyable moment and do cherish it.

    Hope you are taking Garb Sanskar energy or listening to CD. Read the article on pregnancy and divert all care and love for your baby...
    GOLDEN SUNRISE TO YOUR PREGNANCY AND THE LITTLE ANGEL ...
  • @Rakhi-Certified VK Teacher mam

    Thank you so much for your wonderful guidance mam
    GOLDEN SUNRISE to you
  • @Gayathri

    Thank you for your thanks.

    As i read your post again....i see that you are objecting to your mother inlaw for her traditional ways of rituals with her son ..... and she is objecting on his visit to you.

    Looks like Newtons 3rd law....to Every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. It might be happening at mental level

    Both you and your mil are working on your husband's mindset to change as per your own wish.

    So now release your action part....let your mil and her son follow their traditional practices....you will be releasing your mind to allow them. Request VK to help you in this allowance wholeheartedly.
    Just look at this like this....
    Let the mother son love remain
    Let the husband wife bond remain.
  • @Rakhi-Certified VK Teacher mam

    Already started sending healing energies to me, my hubby,mil and sils.
    Parents of both sides.

    Now iam sending more healing to my baby as iam near to my delivery date.

    GOLDEN SUNRISE mam
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