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The issue of Control....in marriage
I am trying to get a better understanding of VK and its philosophy and me taking control or manipulating or making things happen.
I am working on strengthening the relationship between myself and my husband. I am struggling between my need to control him and our relationship or just things in my life in general and using VK to help with this. I am trying to work on me feeling that I need to CONTROL someone or something else. But than isn't that what I am doing working with VK??!! Using VK to CONTROL change what he is doing to make me happy?? I am feeling conflicted here.
And also where does SURRENDER play a role in this and FREE WILL?
I am just trying to get a better handle on this and deal with the conflicting feelings I am feeling. I am feeling like somehow there is a block going on within me, or that sometimes it feels like the opposite of what I am trying to work with is happening, that is preventing me from moving forward?! I think someone else touched on that a little bit earlier - they were using all these serum and the opposite was starting to pop up?! I feel like that sometimes?!
I hope this makes sense!! Thank you for your time!!
Blessings to all!! Hugs
Julie
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@Julesmm
This is what mind healing is about... sometimes.
Mind healing takes time.
Its not,.... that "opposite is happening", ......but its just..... that "it is happening" and the situation needs more energy to ease out the resistance and conflicts.
Till the demand of energy is more, one may get the feeling that its not happening.
Mind healing with relationships requires use of right energies to work on both minds as well as it needs some patience without analysis.
I have used Serums for relationships where one person even wants to end life because the person cannot tolerate the other person. Some cases we need to increase the dose and work with patience.
I have used Calm Down Serum and Bach Flower Rescue Remedy for a couple who were about to separate, after this healing their life has changed for good.
In the case, where one person feels to control other, we can use CALM DOWN SERUM for that person. If you feel both are controlling each other, use CDS for both.
As you are a VK user, you can send LOVE SERUM to your husband.
Please do ONE SOUL SERUM too.
On a paper, draw a circle, write both names (you and yr spouse).
Hold VK and say
LOVE SERUM LOVE SERUM LOVE SERUM,
ONE SOUL SERUM ONE SOUL SERUM ONE SOUL SERUM
and then keep VK on this circle for 30 min.
Like this you can do at least 4 to 5 times in a day.
If you want to create more energy, do this every 10 min 3 times back to back, instead of 30 min at a time.
Do this 10 min x 3 times healing, back to back........ once in morning (10 x3), once in afternoon (10x3), once in evening (10x3) and then maybe at night(10x3).
If you feel some past events in your life, makes you more aggressive towards him or same with him too, you both can take CALM DOWN SERUM and BACH FLOWER RESCUE REMEDY too.
This mental healing takes at least 3 to 6 months if done continuously. Sometimes you may see changes in weeks or sometimes in months.
Please do not STOP, just continue. Allow the Serums to work on all the mental blocks.
@ Julesmm
Also one suggestion, please stop using the word STRUGGLE, as by law of attraction, it will attract more of struggle.
instead we can say I am WORKING to improve my relations....
Rakhi - Blessings and Thank you!!
I like what you said about Mind Healing and patience with-out analysis!!! So my question about if you could talk more about that might be the opposite of what you are trying to tell me? ;-)
I have been using his pictures saying "All Clear Serum 3x Love Serum 3x One Soul Serum 3x to Ernest NOW FOREVER thank you thank you thank you and putting vk on his picture for 30 minutes several times a day for the last week,
Than for me saying "All Clear Serum 3x One Soul Serum 3x Balance Serum 3x and sometimes Shield of 7 rays to ME NOW FOREVER thank you thank you thank you and putting my other VK on my picture.
So I will try putting our pictures together and saying what you suggest ( But just to be clear can i say LOVE SERUM to myself?? ) and will continue with that !! I like the way you suggested to speed it up!!! Thank you for your help and support!!!!
And yes I will continue on WORKING to improve my relationship with my husband!!
Hugs!!
@Julesmm
Thank you for your blessings !!
The method you were following was incorrect, i.e. giving ONE SOUL SERUM separately to each of you.
Please remember ONE SOUL SERUM is to get people together at body mind and soul level. So it should always be given together to all members involved.
Make it an easy way, to write both the names in a circle and energise it as described in my first post.
You can even charge your drinking water tank with CALM DOWN SERUM and ONE SOUL SERUM.
LOVE SERUM....... CANNOT be given to self, however Sharat Sir has guided that, we when we want to use ONE SOUL SERUM and LOVE SERUM together for our OWN relations, we can write our name in the circle.
Please read point number 14 in ONE SOUL SERUM article here. for more clarity.
Also read all points in the article to use VK in a creative way.
In this case CALM DOWN SERUM is a must.
@Rakhi-Certified VK Teacher ...about your post whereby you have mentioned
"If you want to create more energy, do this every 10 min 3 times back to back, instead of 30 min at a time.
Do this 10 min x 3 times healing, back to back........ once in morning (10 x3), once in afternoon (10x3), once in evening (10x3) and then maybe at night(10x3).
My query is that if VK gives energy for 30 minutes why is it necessary to recharge every 10 minutes? Why not after 25 minutes? Does the energy reduce after 10 minutes?
@Saibisa
The energy demand is very high than supply, so you can increase the energy by requesting frequently.
Similar concept is applied in VOB, continuously providing energy.....
Personally my experience says do requests more frequently without seeing the clock !!
Thank you