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DNA Healing or Ancestral Healing to break wrong pattern running in the family??
GOLDEN SUNRISE VK Family
Pls guide
Sorry for the long post
My father in law(above 70 years) and his father(passed away) are extremely egoistic & always disrespected & insulted their wives in front of everyone, everywhere.
How much ever hard work their wives do, cooking, cleaning, taking care of sick people & elderly people, wives do everything even when they are not healthy. Extreme hardworking wives still get Insults and no care even when wives are not healthy.
I'm observing the same pattern in my husband(36years). Always looking down upon me, insulting and disrespecting me always especially in front of his mother & sisters. They don't say a word to stop him.
Even if I do everything for them, still treats me very badly.
My sons (8 years & 3 years old) always watching their father disrespecting their mother. I feel bad for my kids, what if my sons also learn the same thing from their father.
Generally the men in this family never respect women. Always dominating.
If any issue comes up, my father in law says to my husband that you are not controlling your wife properly. I never say a word to elderly people but still this happens.
My husband shouts at me in front of my kids for not cooking or cleaning even if I'm Extremely down with fever or any other health issue.
My kids feel that it is Mother's duty to cook, clean even when not in good health or even bedridden.
Does this pattern exists in my Husband's DNA or he's like this because he has grown up watching his father and grandfather insulting their wives??
My mother in law never taught his son to respect wife. She feels like she never had a loving relationship with her husband then why should daughter in law have this?
How to heal this pattern in my husband? How to protect my sons from this pattern?
Is it related to DNA ?
OR something ancestral ?
Wrong pattern running in the family...
How to raise my sons to be good men ?
What kind of Healing must be given to break this pattern in my husband and kids. ???
My father in law & husband already started teaching my sons to disrespect women like a normal thing.
I'm scared.
Pls help me to protect my kids from bad influences.
Bad company and bad influence is at home not somewhere outside.
I want my kids to see their father loving, respecting, prioritizing their mother.
How's this possible with VK?
Pls guide
Pls guide
Sorry for the long post
My father in law(above 70 years) and his father(passed away) are extremely egoistic & always disrespected & insulted their wives in front of everyone, everywhere.
How much ever hard work their wives do, cooking, cleaning, taking care of sick people & elderly people, wives do everything even when they are not healthy. Extreme hardworking wives still get Insults and no care even when wives are not healthy.
I'm observing the same pattern in my husband(36years). Always looking down upon me, insulting and disrespecting me always especially in front of his mother & sisters. They don't say a word to stop him.
Even if I do everything for them, still treats me very badly.
My sons (8 years & 3 years old) always watching their father disrespecting their mother. I feel bad for my kids, what if my sons also learn the same thing from their father.
Generally the men in this family never respect women. Always dominating.
If any issue comes up, my father in law says to my husband that you are not controlling your wife properly. I never say a word to elderly people but still this happens.
My husband shouts at me in front of my kids for not cooking or cleaning even if I'm Extremely down with fever or any other health issue.
My kids feel that it is Mother's duty to cook, clean even when not in good health or even bedridden.
Does this pattern exists in my Husband's DNA or he's like this because he has grown up watching his father and grandfather insulting their wives??
My mother in law never taught his son to respect wife. She feels like she never had a loving relationship with her husband then why should daughter in law have this?
How to heal this pattern in my husband? How to protect my sons from this pattern?
Is it related to DNA ?
OR something ancestral ?
Wrong pattern running in the family...
How to raise my sons to be good men ?
What kind of Healing must be given to break this pattern in my husband and kids. ???
My father in law & husband already started teaching my sons to disrespect women like a normal thing.
I'm scared.
Pls help me to protect my kids from bad influences.
Bad company and bad influence is at home not somewhere outside.
I want my kids to see their father loving, respecting, prioritizing their mother.
How's this possible with VK?
Pls guide
Comments
@Rakhi-Certified VK Teacher mam
Pls guide
Its most unlikely that its a DNA Pattern
Its more of upbringing and copying the elders behaviour
Imprinting subconscious mind with required intentions ??
Any healing guidance?
Yes you can explore
You can explore BACH REMEDIES for all men
Check if BEECH WILLOW applies to their behaviour
Also the ladies in the home need healing because they have been accepting rude behaviours including you
Send LOVE SERUM to your husband
Watch and take energy of Sirs video on MENTAL TOUGHNESS
For your children you can set the intentions that they respect every human being not only women and send them SO7R for protection.
Can I break this pattern with Sharat sir's videos like
Attract husband in-laws love respect care video
&
Strong Happy Relationship & bond video
???
Accepting rudeness itself is the karma created by the ladies. And they are suffering its fruits.
One cannot blame it on Karma or Men
Its a CHOICE to live or alter the environment by the men and women both genders
You can watch Sirs video that you have mentioned in above comments.
Also read my previous comments if you have missed by chance
I will plan accordingly and request VK for the healing regularly....
Reading all your comments again, looks like you are seeking respect from others and also feel to hold others responsible for disrespect.
This is natural with many beings because that's more easy to do. But in the process, you GIVE AWAY YOUR POWER to someone else.
And if this repeats, then more POWER is given away and the person feels weak. In such cases, most of the people think of changing others and expect others to behave in such a way so that no more hurt is created.
You can heal others but there is another angle to it. As you are a matured VK user, I can take the liberty to tell you this.
You may be in trauma of being hurt with disrespect, most of the times you are not directly responsible for hurt but still go through it repeatedly. But you are responsible to heal yourself.
When you are inside out stronger, you may not feel the hurt when you CHOOSE to be in the relationship. You will create your new SELF RESPECT and set an example to your children.
They will look at you as you SHOW them as you.
While healing others, FOCUS on your own self.
Cleanse and POLISH your AURA.
Must watch Sharat Sirs podcast BLAMING LUCK Vs CREATING LIFE Part 2
Check how to do AURA FLUSH EMPOWERMENT with VK.
Clean your energy system ie your CHAKRAs
If you do this regularly, you will TRANSFORM into Gayathri, who can DEAL with family with a different strength level and happiness.
Sometimes the OUTSIDE environment may or may not change, but your INNER ENVIRONMENT can be your CHOICE.
And with this you may Achieve many things as a person, mother, family woman.
Sending GOLDEN SUNRISE DAZZLE to you