About a comman problem comparing with others success

AjjayJaiin

When I read someone's success stories, I get very motivated, but when I see myself unsuccessful after trying the same method, I become even more demotivated. I consider myself unfortunate and get filled with frustration and jealousy. I think that after reading success stories on the forum, something similar must be happening to many people.
My question is that when everything has to be left to God, then isn't taking measures like obstructing his work?

Payal Jain-Certified VK Teacher

I completely understand this feeling of yours. But each of us has a different life, requirements, surroundings, and circumstances and it is very normal to have such feelings. Everyone's journey is unique. What worked instantly for someone might take longer for you, or it might require a different approach altogether.

Instead of seeing yourself as “unsuccessful,” consider this: your journey is still unfolding. Just because you haven’t seen results yet doesn’t mean they aren’t on their way. Comparing your timeline to others will only bring unnecessary suffering.

Leaving everything to God doesn’t mean sitting passively and doing nothing. Even divine blessings require action on our part. Think of a farmer—he prays for rain, but he also plows the field and plants the seeds. Similarly, taking inspired action doesn’t mean we are obstructing God’s work; it means we are co-creating with Him.

let's work on turning jealousy into inspiration and self-belief and instead of blaming fate, consider tweaking your approach, being patient, and staying open to divine timing.

Instead of thinking, “Others succeed, but I don’t, so I am unfortunate,” try affirming:
“My success is unfolding at the perfect time, in the perfect way. I trust the divine plan.”
“If it is possible for them, it is possible for me too. My journey is beautifully unique.”

AjjayJaiin

I understand what you are saying but there is a corner of my mind that is not ready to accept it. There is a despair and frustration inside that disturbs me a lot and creates an internal conflict.

Payal Jain-Certified VK Teacher

Release it with a request to VK, "VK release my frustration".

We are there with you, helping and understanding you at every possible point.

Keep writing like this, all about your feelings.
You acknowledge your emotions, is, half the healing done. Trust me.
Just wearing VK releases people's anger (I hope you know this)
Small babies get energy from their VK user mother.
Even when you don't request VK, it keeps you bombarded with positive energy.

If your energy gets depleted by negative thinking, VK keeps filling it.

Payal Jain-Certified VK Teacher

We request VK to release stress or release fear.
Have you ever heard that just saying this will make it happen?
If VK can do this and people are benefiting from it, then it means it can do it.
So, it is possible.

Tell yourself every time you feel frustrated or in doubt "If it has happened for even one person, then it means it does happen. If it has happened for them, it will happen for me too.

AjjayJaiin

I feel relieved after reading your reply. I will try my best to follow your advice

Payal Jain-Certified VK Teacher

Thats great. I am sure you will do it.