DNA Healing or Ancestral Healing to break wrong pattern running in the family??

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Pls guide

Sorry for the long post

My father in law(above 70 years) and his father(passed away) are extremely egoistic & always disrespected & insulted their wives in front of everyone, everywhere.

How much ever hard work their wives do, cooking, cleaning, taking care of sick people & elderly people, wives do everything even when they are not healthy. Extreme hardworking wives still get Insults and no care even when wives are not healthy.

I'm observing the same pattern in my husband(36years). Always looking down upon me, insulting and disrespecting me always especially in front of his mother & sisters. They don't say a word to stop him.

Even if I do everything for them, still treats me very badly.

My sons (8 years & 3 years old) always watching their father disrespecting their mother. I feel bad for my kids, what if my sons also learn the same thing from their father.

Generally the men in this family never respect women. Always dominating.

If any issue comes up, my father in law says to my husband that you are not controlling your wife properly. I never say a word to elderly people but still this happens.

My husband shouts at me in front of my kids for not cooking or cleaning even if I'm Extremely down with fever or any other health issue.

My kids feel that it is Mother's duty to cook, clean even when not in good health or even bedridden.

Does this pattern exists in my Husband's DNA or he's like this because he has grown up watching his father and grandfather insulting their wives??

My mother in law never taught his son to respect wife. She feels like she never had a loving relationship with her husband then why should daughter in law have this?

How to heal this pattern in my husband? How to protect my sons from this pattern?

Is it related to DNA ?

OR something ancestral ?

Wrong pattern running in the family...

How to raise my sons to be good men ?

What kind of Healing must be given to break this pattern in my husband and kids. ???

My father in law & husband already started teaching my sons to disrespect women like a normal thing.

I'm scared.

Pls help me to protect my kids from bad influences.

Bad company and bad influence is at home not somewhere outside.

I want my kids to see their father loving, respecting, prioritizing their mother.

How's this possible with VK?

Pls guide