@Dolly mam,
Sometimes as parents we become overpossessive, we want our kids to behave like some others child or we have a mindset of good & bad behaviour.
Every kid is like a flower with own unique qualities and natural tendency.
Every single being we, kids are born with a purpose in life…and is so vast that there is no milestones, still we set aim and create our milestone.
As a father i can say "o my son, i helped you walk by holding my fingers. You have to pay-back my efforts. But be truthful i am not able to make him walk, its a natural process a kid usually start walking nearly a year, could i make him walk in 4 months? Well No it is all natural growth and as a father i opt credit."
As a mother i can say "o my son you have to payback for my milk feeding to you, is it so? Well truth is no the milk is only available after his birth."
Everything is well planned in nature, i am not OWNER i am a Guardian till his steps on himself, i am a Guardian till his teeth comes for own feeding rest is his Journey.
:worried: I am not the owner of my kids, my wife.
:confused: I am not the owner of my relationship, my friends.
:expressionless: I am not the owner of my body, my mind,
:grey_question: Who I Am?
:love: I am an observer of life through senses, through emotions, through feelings, through thoughts.
:heart: I am Love
:heart: I am Light
The life i see through my judgement and compairing, competiting is Mind Conditioning.
:blush: The life i observe through Soul is Pure Consciousness.
Unjudged.
Detatched.
Acceptance.
Unexpectation.
Unhurtable.
Unbreakable.
Moving or stable
:relaxed: I never born and never died.