You have been mentioned about right energies and right way of sending energy. All more you need to know is that some situations need patience and request to VK as much as possible for you.
We have many experiences where such families have joined, where two bitter people have met again. What all they did was worked with patience .
Keep goin, energies will show up any day, you WILL get the results. You WILL get the success. Energies requested show up for sure, know that.