Just request VK in your own words.
DIVINE has made each one of us special with unique skills , strengths and talents.
When you admire qualities of any other person , you can request VK to have those qualities in you.
In human beings, certain qualities or strengths develop based on some past events, there might be some hidden suffering also behind the strength, it is my personal opinion to take energies of Deities like MAA DURGA to face any situations or MAA Saraswati for knowledge
OR
request the such qualities directly also like VK BLESS ME TO FACE ALL SITUATIONS WITH MORE STRENGTH AND VIGOUR.
VK BLESS ME TO BE A WINNER IN ALL SITUATIONS.
VK BLESS MY DAUGHTER STRENGTH AND WISDOM IN EVERY SITUATION OF HER LIFE
And so on