MATE is someone who is with another. SOULMATE is a mate of the soul.
A soul is beyond body and mind….but dwells in a person/living or non-living.
A soulmate is one from whom a soul may benefit in some way.
In the journey of life, a soul lives and learns through the body. In any relationship, the mind and body may get hurt….so one may call it FALLING or FAILING.
I feel the soul DOES NOT fall or fail….its only the body and mind that feels FAILED OR FALLEN. Soul goes through the journey of learning…..learning ….learning.
In any relation, be it parent- child, sibling-sibling or husband-wife and so on….its our CHOICE to be happy or be hurt.
Is your happiness depending on others or yourself ? If your happiness depends on others ….you may keep getting hurt or feel burdened or suffocated with expectations and responsibilities.
One can choose to remain happy in broken relationship or one can choose to cry on petty things even if surrounded by abundance.
In case of marriage, people who depart in divorce or otherwise….its again a choice either of one or both partner.
Irrespective of relationship, every soul has a learning journey.
In departing/failing/falling/happy/joyful/friendly relations…..every soul takes a lesson. This lesson may be seen in bitterness, suffocation, in forgiveness or happiness ONLY BY THE BODY OR MIND. But the SOUL LEARNS EVERYTHING PEACEFULLY.
Two children are born to same mother as TWINS. They are almost in same surrounding at least for 10 to 20 years normally….but they live differently. They live with their own choice.
Most of the hurt and expectation failure between 2 people happens because of their mindset.
Marriage as a ritual was instituted many years back to know the identity of a child. In ancient times, there was no legal or ritual bonding between men and women that they have to be together or committed. There were lesser negative emotions and more joy.
As marriage became a ritual and later legalised…..people also started having a mindset change. There came a place for differences , unreasonable expectation and dominance in some cases. With legality, they could also separate. But the society started seeing this as a TABOO, not accepting people the way they want to live their own lives.
The souls must have learnt what they would be supposed to learn and departed from each other peacefully to live their remaining journey. The body and minds of these partners, their families, friends and society choose to remain unhappy or hurt or happy and peaceful, moving ahead or remain stuck.
There are no burdens in relationships, it is more of CHOICES and EXPECTATIONS.
Parents and children can be happy when they are away if they choose to be happy without expectations. They can be unhappy staying together ….if they choose to feel hurt or burdened with responsibilities.
Now in case of PERFECT SOULMATE….on Litairian website. It means a perfect union of two souls being together forever benefiting in multiple ways….the body and mind also feel happy with soul, individually and together.
There is love care respect and whatever each person requires individually and in harmony with the other partner in body, mind along with soul.
If a person remains unmarried or single, they would still have a soulmate , from whom they would be benefitting.
Even in a happy married life, any of the spouse, could still have a SOULMATE outside marriage , where they would be benefitting at soul level. This relation at soul level would be pure and benefitting….nothing to do with lust or negative intentions.
A SOULMATE is beyond marriage, body and mind. Marriage is a man devised ritual for systematic living of families, where each member benefits and loves each other.
A person can have many soulmate through the journey of living body. They keep learning and be together or depart or keep moving.
SOULMATE is beyond body, beyond gender, beyond caste or religion and beyond relations made by a body.