@MeghaS – Reading through the entire issue, I also see that there is something like you putting lot of blame on your husband and his Female colleague which is a common human nature. At times your mind gets you in strange moods and negative behavior which doesnt exist but we bring it. Try to look your relationship from a 3rd person view also and use VK to repair all the areas and then see the results. Also you can use One soul serum for you and your husband and SO7R to your both marriage. Also try to dig down and understand why intimacy is finished and try to think how to ignite spark back in your love life.
Also at this period dont listen any negative talks from relatives/friends as it will block healings as your relation needs more positive energy and it has to come from your own heart.
@"Rakhi-Certified VK Teacher" – Please correct me if i missed something.